1. Treat each other with respect
2. Keep the mystery alive. Find new ways to
please your partner.Suprise them and add a dash
of excitement to your love life.
3. Listen to what your partner is saying-- not just
what you think he/she is saying. Misunderstanding
is one of the biggest causes of problems within a
relationship.
4. Write love letters to each other from time to
time, and leave them in unexpected places for your
partner to find.
5. Use more physical contact -- touch, hug and
stroke your partner -- especially (and this is really
important to women) out of bed.
6. Remember that your partner is not a mind
reader. Explaining yourself and your emotions --
and encouraging your partner to do the same will
help ensure that neither of you holds on to
resentments for imagined slights, or things left
unsaid or undone.
7. Never use sex as a bargaining chip to get what
you want.
8. Keep yourself attractive for your partner. Being
relaxed in a relationship is one thing, but letting
yourself go could be interpreted as meaning that
your partner is no longer important enough to be
worth making an effort for.
9. Don't let your job overshadow your relationship.
Of course, work is important, but it shouldn't be
allowed to take precedence over your relationship
or your partner's needs.
10. Make time for conversations and fulfilling
sexual encounters.
11. Do not get in a rut ... break routines, surprise
your partner with a little treat every now and then.
It doesn't have to be expensive, remember, it's the
thought that counts.
12. Know your partner's body like you know your
own.
13. Don't take yourself too seriously. Learn to
laugh at yourself. A sense of humor is one of the
most seductive attributes of all.
14. Tell your partner about yourself, the more
he/she knows the more they will understand your
actions.
15. Each morning take time to tell each other your
dreams. Many of your feelings and desires may be
revealed.
16. Give your partner a free day from time to
time ...so take over their chores on Sunday.
17. Lay out your goals (long and short term) and
discuss these with your partner. If there is a large
gap, make an effort to reconcile your priorities.
18. Always talk through financial issues as these
can become very
large, very quickly.
19. Use the time after sex to express your feelings
about your partner and the relationship... do not
immediately roll over and go to sleep. Those 'after-
glow' moments can help you develop real intimacy.
If you are a man, remember that, for women, one
of the prime motivations for sex is intimacy, and
the conclusion of intercourse or satisfying orgasms
are gateways to greater intimacy.
20. Indulge in a guilty pleasure like a chocolate
sundae together--one bowl, one spoon and lots of
enjoyment.
21. Learn to love yourself more. It may sound trite,
but it's true -- you can't love anyone else until you
first love yourself.
Posted by Ruth ii Cailo on July 26, 2005 at 05:12 PM in Weblogs | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)
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